The Emptiness Of The Closed Heart

The feelings you have had all your life, of the disrespect of the female body and the family structure built on judgement, is a feeling many are in agreement with. The disempowering judgements of others hurt your young ones, and set them on a path, often of self destruction, which garners even more judgement. When in fact it is love that would heal the issue. 

The answer is always love, no matter the problem, and as we go through this experience, the love you express will become clearer and  clearer to all you encounter. It will always fill you up, and those to whom you give it. It  is the answer, always.

 The energy of love is seen by us as pink and golden radiance beaming out from the heart centre, and the energy is indeed a universal energy that all beings feel. The feeling is one of openness and joy, and as soon as this feeling is pinched off we feel a loss and a sadness that often is attributed to the other person. But in fact, it is our own energy we have pinched off because of fear of hurt or loss, and indeed we inflict the pain on ourselves in advance of the event we are actually afraid of.

 Is it not ironic that the solitude of the lonely heart is more painful than the pain they feel if they are heart broken. That is because the feelings of a love lost are alive, and love focused, even if they are difficult. The pain of loneliness is a dead energy, bereft of the life giving force of God energy. It is the cold and empty room that has never been lived in, not as the messy room after a party. Messy, yes, but full of evidence of life and the exchanges of love and passion that have taken place there. Yes, we like this analogy too. Both empty rooms, but so different they cannot be compared. 

So if you are afraid of love, know that even if you end up as an empty room, you will know there was a party had in you, and that is a good thing. The mess can be cleaned up, and if there is no regret for the party, the clean up does not take too long at all. A few weeks of tears and sadness will heal a heart abandoned by a lover, but the emptiness of the closed heart is indeed a tougher job to heal.

 You, dear one, closed your heart, and although you were badly hurt, it would have taken less time to heal if you had understood your part in your pain. The closed heart leads to a lack of communication, and the problems of relationships go deeper and last longer when no one is speaking.

 And so, dear ones, speak out when you are sad or lonely or hurt, to those you are in relationship with. They are not aware of the pain they are causing most of the time, and if they are indifferent to your need, then perhaps they are not the ones you wish to share your precious existence with. We are all free to come and go with the beings around us, and we suggest that if love is shared and still they are not interested, that you move on and find someone who is.

W are not suggesting that you be unfeeling; on the contrary, we are supposing you should all be more feeling and more expressive, and the problems will rise to the surface to be loved into disappearance, or let go and forgiven. It is the unexpressed that is poisonous, and the unexpressed that hurts. We are all on a journey of growth in to more and more love, and this is why we are writing these books, to help you dear ones, on the earth plane, counseled in false ways around the very thing that is your salvation.